Love Myths-2
This is the second part of the Love Myths article. Hope you enjoy it.
You can love more than one person at a time
Well, well, I believe if you are actually in love with someone like you claim, you wouldn't have time to share that with someone else. Since love is a commitment, you can't commit to two people, you'll consciously be giving your attention to one person. Be realistic with yourself, even if you claim to love two people, they'll come a time you have to make a decision of choosing one and by then, you'll know who you value more and who has won your heart.
If you're in love, you won't be attracted to other people
This is another point that is totally untrue. You'll definitely be attracted to other people. You might come across people that have certain qualities you admire in a partner but what keeps you disciplined and faithful in your relationship is the commitment you made to your partner. Remember, you choose them!
Love is a bed of roses
So here's the thing, people expect romantic relationships to be like a bed of roses. They want to enjoy it but forget that roses also have thorns. Yes, at one point or the other, you're surely bound to have disagreements with your partner, challenges and doubts about them. It is pertinent to acknowledge here that these things are normal and when you get through it, your bond with your partner becomes stronger and you appreciate them more. Remember, it is through adversity we become stronger.
If it's love, it'll work naturally
Okayy, we're here. When you first started dating, remember all the nice things you did for your partner? It could be that you called or texted everyday, you guys used to go on dates more often, or you probably have gifts. I have a question for you - why have you stopped doing those things? Your partner probably thinks you're no longer interested in being with them. To those that are still doing those kind gestures and fun things with their partners, don't stop. I'm proud of you. These little gestures are the fuel of the relationship and you have to keep that fuel burning and sometimes you might be required to make sacrifices too.
True love does not exist
With the way the world is today, it's hard for people to find true love. Some people don't even believe in it anymore. I'm here to tell you that true love does exist and you shouldn't write it off. There's someone out there who will love you with all your flaws and your scars and tell you that you're beautiful. Stay positive!
Love will change you
This message is for people that have issues they're dealing with. It could be you have some bad attitudes or traits that you've failed to manage and you believe love will change you. The only thing that can change you is the fact that you want to change and be a better person. What if your relationship doesn't work out? Does it mean you're back to those bad habits because you don't have a partner? If you really want to change, let it be that you're doing it for yourself and not to impress someone because if you're impressing, sooner or later you'll get tired and it'll affect your relationship.
Thank you so much for taking time to read. I hope you enjoyed this article. I'm hoping to get your feedback in the comment section.
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