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Introduction

Oh hello, my lovely people. I have been waiting for you. Now I understand how you felt when I was absent—dark and unworthy. But not anymore. Today, I waited for you. So, hello, and welcome to my world. Your host, Jawad, is ready with another life lesson. Before we start, I must say that being with you all is my honor. Let's begin, shall we?

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Now, I think it's time to delve into today's topic. But before I begin, if you haven't checked out my previous articles, I encourage you to do so.

Cobwebs in the Mind! How?

Don’t Let the Vines Bend You

How is the title? I liked it. The idea of bending things... Sorry, I got off track. Now, where are we? Yes, in our motivation class. Just look at the picture.


In this picture, you can see a big tree standing, but not alone. There are herbs, climbers, and vines all around it. It seems like the tree is bearing their weight too and is feeling tired, gasping for pure air but failing. Doesn’t it look like that? Yes, it does. We can all encounter these types of scenes. It’s very common unless you are a city dweller. But have you ever figured out any lessons from this scene? I guess not. But not to worry, I will show you the way.
This picture symbolizes aspects of our lives. Imagine yourself as the big tree. You are free and self-dependent. You are successful. Now, what about those climbers and vines? They symbolize certain elements of your life: wrong friends, overthinking, bad habits, irresponsible behaviors, past memories, etc. They don't grow in a single day. They slowly grasp you and expand their hold, bringing you down. Relatable? Need more explanation? Here we go.

Wrong Friends

This is the most important point. Choosing the right friends is not everyone’s cup of tea. I’m not talking about school friends; I’m talking about those we meet in our professional lives. In our job life, we start building our careers and futures. We start to fly. But then, we cross paths with others—maybe colleagues or job-related individuals. They might lead you to new friends who feel jealous of your success. Slowly, they will put their hands around you, perfecting their grip. Then, they will mislead you. You will understand their nature, but it will be too late. Beware of this, dear.

Overthinking

Many of us deal with this. We have become pawns to overthinking. Life is always insecure for overthinkers. In our quest to make life worthy and secure, we start to overthink. Soon, we become prey to it. We check, recheck, and even double-check every aspect of life and the future. This slows down our progress, just like vines slow down the growth of trees. I have seen people even recalculating simple equations like 2+2=4, just to be sure. Don’t be a pawn to overthinking, dear.

Bad Habits

When you become successful, the first thing that will run towards you is bad habits. How? Well, it’s like an invisible disease. Everyone has it hidden inside, but the taste of success invites it to come out. We have all seen successful people destroy themselves because of bad habits. There are millions of examples. Now, look at that picture. You will clearly understand my message. If you have any bad habits, just get rid of them. Please, it’s a humble request.

Irresponsible Behavior

Arrogance, idleness, rough behavior—all are related to this point. Dear friends, I will only whisper to your ear that in hell, you will suffer a lot for these behaviors. On earth, you will be drowned soon. These vines are so toxic that even the wrong people will avoid you.

Past Memories

What to say about them? We all know the facts, right? Your past memories slow you down. The interesting fact is that everyone knows this but doesn’t agree. Human beings are always nostalgic. The process varies from person to person, but we all feel it. It seems like we are progressing forward, but something is pulling us back. If you want to live perfectly, please move on. It sounds hard and impossible, but trust me, this is the only way.

Ending Thoughts

Climbers or vines are also green like a tree with green leaves. But there is a difference. One leads to growth, and the other pulls you down. Your life also has these vines, ready to bend you down. You decide, dear. Do you want success, or do you want to fall victim to being bent over by vines? Your life, your choice.

Until we meet again, stay curious, stay connected, and above all, stay true to yourself.
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