YOUR VALUE.
It is healthy for you to know your place in people's lives. One way to know this is through monitoring what they give, both either to you and the quality.
Let me explain:
People give valuable things to those they value. Sometimes, the first persons they consider when giving out their best is a direct indication of how valuable those person are to them. I will say this again, know your place in people's lives so that you will not do pass yourself.
Now, what is the quality of those things they give to you? Low quality? Are they giving you scraps?
What is your position on the list when they are giving? Are you always considered last?
My people, the best is not always reserved for the last oh. Some times, you are placed last to indicate your position on their list of valued contacts. Do not settle for "being on the list is better than not being on it at all", well, unless you do not deserve to be there.
And you, do you value people that are adding to you? What is the quality of your givings to them? Do you appreciate them at all?
From Art and Experience, Yusuf Sadiq.