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Doctors have also said that if a mother is allowed to take care of one child, her confidence will return. That is her real medicine. Now does Baba not understand this? But they will be able to think in that way only when their attitude towards mother changes? But I made up my mind that first I would go and meet the nannies coming to the nursery. Sumit also liked my idea. Seeing that he is also constantly needed here, he also started looking for a job in Mumbai.
In fact, an opportunity to go to Muscat had come to him in the meantime. But he could not go because of this situation of our house. His leap was great. For that, he got a job there with great effort. He wanted the experience there. But in reality, Sumeet could not reach there. Me too P. H. D. It is possible to say that he had forgotten. Only the mother is completely fine The mind was obsessed with only one thing to be. As planned, after two-four days, I slowly took the children's addresses from the mother's diary and visited each one's house. Everyone has some compelling reason to send their child no. But it became clear that they will not send their children to my mother anymore. One woman, however, told me plainly, "What has already happened is so terrible. Again your mother's mood is not good. Why should we take the risk of handing over children to them when we see this? Already had one or two children. In it again this tension key..." "Okay. I know what you mean!" I interrupted them and said, "That's right! Actually, I shouldn't have come to ask that." Here too I had to be disappointed. But I should have realized earlier that my approach to mother's grief and those women's approach would be different! But it took so long for a girl studying psychology like me to realize the difference, because my love for my mother drove me so much. Made it so couldn't think of anyone else. It was good that I went to her house secretly without telling my mother. Otherwise, the mother was already tired of children not coming to her home. It would have been difficult for her to recover again if she had realized that even going to her house was of no use. Even I could not hide my disappointment from Sumeet. Finally I told him everything that happened and said, "Now I don't know what to do in this situation. I see no path to hope. How to get rid of this nervousness of mother?" Sumit took my hand and calmly said, "Tell me what to do? Because there is a solution and it is only with you.
If you want to think carefully, tell me. But for that you have to put aside your passion, your career." I immediately noticed Sumit's slurred speech. But how is this possible? Because as Sumeet is saying, if we think about the child, there is a possibility that Sumeet's career will be ruined along with me. He has already been able to afford it with me, and in the future, he should be allowed to do the same? I didn't want to do that. So I said to him, "Are you talking about your planning? Oh, how stubbornly we both had decided not to even think about a child for five or six years for our careers. Still my p. H. D. I don't think it is important for me to pay my respects or leave my fellowship! But I don't really want you to leave it all with me, because it's your mission to do something stubbornly different." "Yes, no! It is true that they say that asmadikas are preferred because they are ambitious? "Yes! But now I'm in your way, what about that? Once a child is born, all this will be bound! Already the debt of Pune block is on your head. Again now you will do a new job here. Taking care of her, there will be no time to do anything else in this Mumbai city. And again the responsibility of the child means that then four-five years will be spent in it! Until then, everything will be out of your hands. Therefore, to take this decision Not ready at all." "Sandhya, ah some decisions are taken by the situation itself. You and have no right to make or change such decisions. But we must keep the determination to regain what is slipping away. And so let's give what the situation demands of us now! And the path may change but the goal I will not change, rest assured. Even if your mother knows that you are going to be a grandmother, look at the difference between them! But for your mother, you have to be a mother first." I kept looking at Sumit holding my breath. Because Sumeet accepted the thing that was difficult for me too, so easily that I could not believe it. Also believe in yourself again! The uniqueness of Sumeet in the world of men that I have experienced so far was touching. Because my father, who is free by leaving the responsibility of the whole world on his mother! My brother Sandeep who is not even aware of the hard work done by his mother for him! Tanay's father blames the woman who took care of his child by putting oil in her eyes for three months to three years! Til because her sister will disgrace her My Ravimama who avoids giving support! And Sumit who stands behind the daughter who is struggling to maintain the balance of her mother's life! We changed the course of our lives for mother. Sumit wanted to convey many things to me through the letter. The main thing is that he made the right decision. I wanted to be a mother and I was amazed to see the change in my mother. This alchemy happened because of Sumit. Really because of Sumeet! It was only because of Sumit that mother had hope to live. She had somehow got a new life. Doctors have also said that if a mother is allowed to take care of one child, her confidence will return. That is her real medicine. Now does Baba not understand this? But they will be able to think in that way only when their attitude towards mother changes? But I made up my mind that first I would go and meet the nannies coming to the nursery. Sumit also liked my idea. Seeing that he is also constantly needed here, he also started looking for a job in Mumbai.
In fact, an opportunity to go to Muscat had come to him in the meantime. But he could not go because of this situation of our house. His leap was great. For that, he got a job there with great effort. He wanted the experience there. But in reality, Sumeet could not reach there. Me too P. H. D. It is possible to say that he had forgotten. Only the mother is completely fine The mind was obsessed with only one thing to be. As planned, after two-four days, I slowly took the children's addresses from the mother's diary and visited each one's house. Everyone has some compelling reason to send their child no. But it became clear that they will not send their children to my mother anymore. One woman, however, told me plainly, "What has already happened is so terrible. Again your mother's mood is not good. Why should we take the risk of handing over children to them when we see this? Already had one or two children. In it again this tension key..." "Okay. I know what you mean!" I interrupted them and said, "That's right! Actually, I shouldn't have come to ask that." Here too I had to be disappointed. But I should have realized earlier that my approach to mother's grief and those women's approach would be different! But it took so long for a girl studying psychology like me to realize the difference, because my love for my mother drove me so much. Made it so couldn't think of anyone else. It was good that I went to her house secretly without telling my mother. Otherwise, the mother was already tired of children not coming to her home. It would have been difficult for her to recover again if she had realized that even going to her house was of no use. Even I could not hide my disappointment from Sumeet. Finally I told him everything that happened and said, "Now I don't know what to do in this situation. I see no path to hope. How to get rid of this nervousness of mother?" Sumit took my hand and calmly said, "Tell me what to do? Because there is a solution and it is only with you.
If you want to think carefully, tell me. But for that you have to put aside your passion, your career." I immediately noticed Sumit's slurred speech. But how is this possible? Because as Sumeet is saying, if we think about the child, there is a possibility that Sumeet's career will be ruined along with me. He has already been able to afford it with me, and in the future, he should be allowed to do the same? I didn't want to do that. So I said to him, "Are you talking about your planning? Oh, how stubbornly we both had decided not to even think about a child for five or six years for our careers. Still my p. H. D. I don't think it is important for me to pay my respects or leave my fellowship! But I don't really want you to leave it all with me, because it's your mission to do something stubbornly different." "Yes, no! It is true that they say that asmadikas are preferred because they are ambitious? "Yes! But now I'm in your way, what about that? Once a child is born, all this will be bound! Already the debt of Pune block is on your head. Again now you will do a new job here. Taking care of her, there will be no time to do anything else in this Mumbai city. And again the responsibility of the child means that then four-five years will be spent in it! Until then, everything will be out of your hands. Therefore, to take this decision Not ready at all." "Sandhya, ah some decisions are taken by the situation itself. You and have no right to make or change such decisions. But we must keep the determination to regain what is slipping away. And so let's give what the situation demands of us now! And the path may change but the goal I will not change, rest assured. Even if your mother knows that you are going to be a grandmother, look at the difference between them! But for your mother, you have to be a mother first." I kept looking at Sumit holding my breath. Because Sumeet accepted the thing that was difficult for me too, so easily that I could not believe it. Also believe in yourself again! The uniqueness of Sumeet in the world of men that I have experienced so far was touching. Because my father, who is free by leaving the responsibility of the whole world on his mother! My brother Sandeep who is not even aware of the hard work done by his mother for him! Tanay's father blames the woman who took care of his child by putting oil in her eyes for three months to three years! Til because her sister will disgrace her My Ravimama who avoids giving support! And Sumit who stands behind the daughter who is struggling to maintain the balance of her mother's life! We changed the course of our lives for mother. Sumit wanted to convey many things to me through the letter. The main thing is that he made the right decision. I wanted to be a mother and I was amazed to see the change in my mother. This alchemy happened because of Sumit. Really because of Sumeet! It was only because of Sumit that mother had hope to live. She had somehow got a new life.
