How to make better decisions
Smart people are way too preoccupied with doing the right things. They want to have a perfect life, career, house, business, car, holiday, etc. When you put too much pressure on yourself to make the right decisions, you get analysis paralysis. The solution? Do these two things:
Avoid overthinking â When you overanalyze every single decision, you become paralyzed. Result? Nothing. Also, overthinking leads to mental fatigue. And when youâre brain is tired, it tends to make poorer decisions.
Make small decisions. And decide often â When I had trouble with my newsletter provider years ago, I didnât change to a different one immediately. Thatâs because I had a smaller list. Then my list grew and the problem of changing providers became even harder. So donât put off decisions.
Remember that not making a decision is also a decision. If thatâs a conscious move, to have more time to think, thatâs okay. But donât fall into the trap of putting off decisions for too long that the stakes get higher.
Focus on the process, not the outcome
When we make decisions, we often ask, âWhat will happen if we make this decision?â But thatâs not necessarily the best method. Because it focuses too much on the outcome. And outcomes arenât fully in our control. Peter Bevelin, the author of Seeking Wisdom, puts it well:
âGood decisions can lead to bad outcomes and vice versa.â
You canât predict the future. Sometimes even bad decisions can lead to good outcomes. So instead, try using mental models to improve your decision-making process. If you can trust that your process leads to your goals, then you wonât have to worry about things you canât control.
Ask yourself these 6 questions
I found a list of six thought-provoking questions in Annie Dukeâs book, Thinking In Bets. Notice what the theme is.
Why might my belief not be true?
What other evidence might be out there bearing on my belief?
Are there similar areas I can look toward to gauge whether similar beliefs to mine are true?
What sources of information could I have missed or minimized on the way to reaching my belief?
What are the reasons someone else could have a different belief, whatâs their support, and why might they be right instead of me?
What other perspectives are there as to why things turned out the way they did?
The reason I like these questions from Annie Duke is that they force you to think about what you canât know. In my experience, thatâs what drastically improves your decisions.
Apply the 20/80 rule of effective thinking
Decision-making involves a lot of thinking. But purely thinking and not doing wonât lead anywhere. So itâs important to have a balance.
I live by a 20/80 ratio. 20% thinking, 80% doing. Not everyone has to use this ratio. It all depends on what you do, and who you are. For example, Warren Buffet is famous for spending around 5 hours each day, reading. Thatâs his âthinking time.â And the rest of the day, he executes.
Some people love to read and talk about ideas. Others prefer to get right down into action. The important thing is to have a balance of thinking and doing that suits your personality and goals.