Shy, Shame and Hesitations.

There are lot of steps to ladder of success as hard work , willpower , decision power , passion , determination and persistence to our goal. These things made any person a successful in his Field and ease the way to success. Oppositely shy , shame and Hesitations are biggest hurdle in our journey.

Shy or feeling shame is somewhere natural in some cases but mostly our childhood living styles made it happen. Environment around where more criticism found then appreciation and less gratitude then hate develop these things in kids. They loose self confidence and slowly they fell in shy to talk anything in front of others. One thing more , such kids can express their feelings in writing , texting , calling but when comes face to face interaction , they can't express in words loudly.

For example lot of people hide their some sickness , desiese and feeling from others untill not go serious. Especially if they have some testily prostate and breast issues. They didn't talk to elders and do maximum avoiding from doctors. They feel shame to examine from a doctor. A unknown fear gripped them from talking or consulting to a professional.

As happened couple of days before with my friend. He was suffering from urine blocking problem since a month. I have no idea that in medical language what we can say but simply his urine was not passing out in flow and has some pain while doing this. He didn't talk to any one due to shy & shame element. At last it gone worst and he admitted in hospital where doctor did a surgery and he is fine now. According to doctor , it was quite possible to avoid from surgery if you comes in earlier stage.

In this case girls are more brave then boys in our society where they can easily talk to lady doctor about their problems but boys feels more shy and shame when they reach to a doctor especially where required to dress down for check up.

Hesitations has lot of kinds and shapes where we face this Hurdle often to talk with others. Mostly this thing happened when we talk to senior, wealthier , high profile , groomed and high ranked official. Hesitations to do any thing new in Life also a channel of it but this one we cover soon by practicing but first one need a full therapy and reconciliation.

Hesitations also relates to earlier age lifestyle where we didn't allow our kids to question , ask , talk to us freely. The communication gap between parents and kids ends up with hesitation in minds of kids. It goes more worst when we abuse , beat and torches our kids on their questions. They falls in hesitate life to talk any one and it lasts whole life.

We should develop friendly environment with our kids to develop positive thinking , free of shy and hesitant life which is compulsory to generate the self confidence. And it is first step to a successful career and life.


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Amjad