Modesty

Modesty is a character trait that is often overlooked in today's society, but it's one that is incredibly important. It's a quality that can bring out the best in people, making them kinder, more empathetic, and more compassionate towards others. Modesty can also help individuals to be more humble and to focus more on their own growth and development, rather than seeking external validation from others. In this blog post, we'll be exploring what modesty is, why it's important, and how you can develop this character trait in yourself.
For a while now, I've been disturbed about the high rate of indecency amongst ladies. I am sure feminist will come for me as regard this, but I will still air my opinion, thankfully, we all own the media space. PS: Nobody got me angry, I just know at least one or two persons will be impacted.

It is hard to understand the reasoning behind showing cleavages and almost all the butt, all in he name of fashion (yeah like I said these categories of persons will come for me, category of 'let people do what they want', 'its their body and they can choose how they want to dress'). The alarming thing is how we ladies even dress to church. I have never seen people in the corporate world dressing half naked or revealing the sensitive or private parts to the world but when it comes to church 'you will want to come the way you are' but when you are going to work,' you dress as expected'.

I have never seen nor experience the height of men fashion exposing their body to the extent of seeing their scrotum or any other private part. (This doesn't include gays and the wanna be females- transgender) I'm referring to proper and responsible men. Even the era of sagging, you never get to see their pubic hair, It is just the various colors of boxers they have in the wardrobe, thank goodness that era is over.

With ladies small fashion, breast is out, dress is half torn. Has anyone gone wrong with modest. We can dress modestly with compromising on fashion/ vogue / style. Don't be deceived with the new slang "Body Positivity". Lol why not embrace such body positivity to Embassies, Interviews, Conferences, Seminars or International Organizations, Let's see if that positivity energy will remain the same. You don't have to show us what is beneath the cloth before we love your body. The truth is men appreciate modesty too, so don't the deceived. Modest estimate of one's own abilities or worth, this means that people who are modest don't seek to draw attention to themselves or their achievements, and they don't overly inflate their own sense of self-importance. Instead, they are more focused on others and on being kind and considerate towards those around them.