Self sabotage
Wrecking the things with guiltily is sabotage and doing such act for ownself is self sabotage. It could be your goal , living styles, mission, struggle or destination which spoiled by yourself with negative & purpose.
I will add a example to understand how we sabotage ourselves. "There was a group of eagles flying on mountainsm. They saw a valley with lot of preys and decided to land and live there. Every needy thing was there to eat without effort.
One day a wise eagle said to group that we are going fat , loosing skills and forgetting the hunting which was our power. Let's go back to forest and live hunting life but no one agreed to fly with him. So he left the valley alone and fly to the forest. After some times a group of tigers arrive there and killed all the eagles because they couldn't fly nor go away to save their life. Wise eagle came back to them and asked from a dying eagle, " what happened with you? He replied, " you was right, we born for hunting by nature and we went against it and adopt the comfert zone which becomes the reason of our killing."
Above example shows that nature gives some skills and techniques to live & survive here. Each creature blessed with specific capabilities to protect himself and found the food to its tribe.
Now if we look at ourselves, we have potential, qualities and specific skills. Each of us has different point of power which is key to survive. When we deny to fulfill our needs purposely then it starts a journey towards self sabotage. Some times we broke our professional successful chase and some times we went rude in attitude.
Fear is another fact in which we falls and detract ourself. More destruction starts when we didn't like ourself, our presentation, our likes , our appearance. so we start lacking in contacting others , building the relationship and handling the situation.
What necessary to keep ourself away from sabotage ? Keep moving and build your mounts. Don't fall in comfert zone, if you are already there then leave it asap. Don't ruine yourself under the dust of time. Search the environment full of dangers which will polish your abilities and will help to know your nature of birth.
Laziness, hesitant behavior, time wasters also play role in self sabotage fueling. The smoke didn't buff out quickly, it made human like wood densed with insects which eat it slowly but silently. What is required as human that we must act the things in priority, decide wisely and keep doing in time. Advice, conversation and to consult on where we couldn't decide are better then regrets. I believe in consultation always because the best idea comes up when two or more minds think.Thank you so much for reading my thoughts on the topic. I will be happy to see your feedback in comments.
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Cheers,
Amjad
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