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Baba was also very angry. He expressed his anger by talking a lot as usual But the mother remained silent. Once she only said to Sandeep, "Oh, you had decided to marry the same girl for sure. There was no question of our yes or no. Then at least show enough faith to put it on my ears first. There was no reason to think that we were even against you." Sandeep did not reply. In fact, Sandeep was very intelligent from a very young age. The main thing is that the mother was also very sensitive about him. From the beginning, Baba's attention in the world is less! So mother felt very supportive of Sandeep. Even when he knew that he was needed at home, he always helped his mother as much as he could. He used to handle all the transactions and external affairs of the bank. On the contrary, even though I was a girl, I was of no use in the house.
That made mother very angry. She used to shout at me, "Sandhya, if you are asked to do some work, you escape by saying that you are studying. You will run away to your husband's house after completing your education. So we are of no use. In the end, Sandeep will have to do everything for us! That is our true support!" Mother used to be a regular companion in anger. Because taking care of the house and taking care of the nursery meant that it would be a strain on her. So expect our help! But I didn't know that at that age. Like other girls, I used to be busy with my college, studies, Vadmayamandal. But Sandeep got married and I started realizing my responsibility. Since then, I really got closer to my mother. I tried to connect mother and Dipalith. Because there was no communication between the two. On Deepali, Hindi was very broken. She used to talk to us in English but my mother could not speak English that well. Our eating habits are also very different. If you don't want to go without fish on Deepali, our house belongs to a Brahmin! Nothing was to her liking. So she could not make the adjustment. For the days she stayed in our house, she remained very aloof, almost like a guest, and then when the problems with the ropes started, Maheri did not return. That's when her father had a heart attack gone Sandeep also went there to meet them and stayed there to manage her father's firm. Since then, his relationship with our house is only in name. Because we try to keep it! Otherwise, he does not even inquire about his mother by making a simple call every month. Some mistakes must have been made by the mother. She could not understand Dipali. But thinking that Deepali's side is completely right in it and acting with such an attitude for years? A man should change according to the situation but he also doesn't want any limits? When a terrible event befalls your home, do you run to him or watch him with trepidation? Can we stand quietly on the edge and watch as our own man sinks? What if I had not come from Pune? If Sumit had not allowed me to stay here for so many months, what would mother have done? Even though he is a father, he is of no use. Ravimama, Sarumavashi, Anumavashi, even all the relatives came to meet. While going back, I heard this again, 'All There is so much trouble with the news appearing on the front page of the newspaper that we have had enough of facing everyone. "But is it the mother's fault? Could such an accident have happened even when Tanay was at his home? My mother has taken care of him for three months. Will she deliberately ignore him? Can you see the condition of the mother after leaving Tanay? No one will know how much involvement she had in Tanay." "Fault or not, but ultimately everyone bears the brunt. Is it true that everyone runs away?" It was the mother's younger sister who pulled Ri. It is clear from their words that no one has the courage to stand behind their mother. On the contrary, everyone was afraid that we would have to face some court charges.
I used to think, mother's exile will never end? What will happen if the time really comes when the mother is convicted by the court and goes to jail? How do we manage everything? Who will testify in court on behalf of the mother? Better to hire a good lawyer first should How will the mother cope with all those court rounds, cross-examination by the lawyers, and the suspicious eyes of the people? But the mother's honest hard work for those children paid off in the end. When the nannies of the other children coming to the nursery were interviewed, they all unanimously said, "Mrs. Deshpande takes great care of all our children. We have no room for complaint in that regard. Many a times even on Sundays we go out without fear leaving our children with them. But he never got bored. And this is the accident that happened to Tanay. It can also happen in our home. So there is no point in convicting them." The court acquitted the mother due to this statement given by the women. Sumit and I breathed a sigh of relief. Poor Sumeet, I called from here to come immediately from Pune. He used to keep the car pass. The atmosphere at our house was such that there was no time to even have a few words with him. But he never complained. I did all this because of his support In fact, when all this happened, our new days were beginning. Neither of us knew each other very well. At such a time Sumeet could have understood anything about us. But fully aware of the situation, he firmly stood behind me. Sumit has suffered from colitis for many years. So he got married early so that he could get home food. But since I was here, my mother-in-law had to put aside all her problems and stay close to Sumeet, but she never spoke.