Why a person changes

In this society, there is no unprovoked change.

The reason behind all changes is due to seeing things clearly and recognizing certain realities, which leads to a change in the mindset of a person.

Love will disappear, but will transfer, people will leave, tea will be cold, and after experiencing many things, life will be bearish, and it will slowly change.

Slowly understand that many things in this world are not as simple as you used to imagine them.

Many times, if you remain the same, it is yourself who will be hurt and wronged in the end.

Therefore, when a person changes, it is because of seeing these points clearly.

See the good and evil of human nature

Many people, at the beginning, are full of expectations, sincere and full of goodwill.

But experience some things, it will understand that in this world is not you are good to a person, the other party will be good to you.

The person who hurts you may be the person closest to you.

When you are at a low point, you will see clearly the fickleness of human nature.

When a person sees clearly the good and evil of human nature, he will naturally slowly put away his enthusiasm and will not give it all at once.

Many times, we gradually become taciturn, and we will not give our sincerity easily, all because we see human nature clearly.

Although this is not good, it is the best way to protect yourself compared to damage.

Don't overestimate your relationship in the hearts of others, but try to love yourself as much as possible.

I'm used to seeing human affection

Life is unpredictable, the ups and downs are unpredictable, no matter how good others are. No matter how unbearable he is, he also has his own unique ability.

We live in this world, don't expect others to bring you anything, only you can rely on yourself.

The more you grow up, the more you have to learn to look carefully on others, especially if you have seen so many, don't care too much about others.

As the saying goes, only after you have tasted the warmth and coldness of human beings will you understand what the world is like.

Ideals are ideals after all. We must learn to return to reality, recognize the status quo, and keep our sincerity when we are used to it, use it to love ourselves well, and leave our sincerity to those who deserve it.

When you reach a certain age, you will understand that many feelings and relationships cannot stand the test. Too many years are quiet, and they are no match for the passage of time.

In the adult society, life and feelings can all be sacrificed.

When you understand it, you don't even have the idea of ​​blaming. People have to learn to adapt to the society. There is no need to regret too much, just be their own light.

We have to learn to get used to everyone's departure, to learn to look down on the road of life, so that we will be more practical and relaxed.