A cycle breaker.

A cycle breaker is one who received the same trauma their parents did and chose to face it head on so they don’t repeat it. They’re wise enough to recognize the potential to do what was done to them and tender enough to sacrifice their comfort in other to break the cycle and heal.
trauma survivors find it difficult to accept the good others see in them. They have lived in the traumatic state for so long, they often can’t see the past shame. Please keep reminding them of their goodness. They will eventually believe and experience their goodness as their truth.
you disrespect yourself when you beg someone for bare minimum things like love, attention, affection, support, precipitation, etc. don’t do that shit again.
sometimes we realize that we’ve been good friends for others but they have not been good friends for us. Please see that you have always deserved more. It’s time to get intentional, decide what you will allow, let go of any patterns that kept you here+make space for what you deserve.