SELF VALUE.
Your place in people's lives can be detected through many ways. I have made mention of giving and the kind of gifts given, and compliments. The idea of the whole thing is to not play the fool. Don't!
Now imagine a colleague or acquaintance making a joke of you or trying to make you look like a joke in the presence of a stranger or a guest! Wonderful!!!
Brother, you are a joke to them. Anyone that try to make you look bad or irrelevant before others is definitely not an ally. That's a real life foe right there.
Let's assume it to be a case of unresolved conflicts between two parties; even at that, no one deserves to be painted black before people just like that even if they have done something wrong. Issues are meant to be dealt with professionally and not made to look like child's play.
Do not be the so-called understanding one oh make person no come rubbish you through a negative first impression before people that may potentially want to work with you later on. No be everything person suppose dey tolerate.
As you read this, hope you are not doing the stated evil to others. Digest this post very well and treat others the way you would want them to treat you in similar situations.
For Life and Art, Sadiq Yusuf.