Make Life Easier.
Problems, hurdles, difficulties and obstacles are part of our life and no one can deny from Thier importance. These problems generate some hypes, fustration and irritations to us. Some of them sort out by our struggle and some remain unsolved.
Other hand we go hyper, tense, anxious and worried when we face bad behaviour and attitude of some one especially from close circle. It is more difficult then upper reason. The effect of this bad attitude wave on our potential, workflow , mental cabability more then else. We went in anger , prompt response, mad and stress after such behaviour.
How should we respond?
It depends on situation and person whom we respond. But still we should teckle the situation with best possible way where our mental health should not effect. We must groom these four qualities in ourself to face any situation.
- Learn to be quite.
- Learn to endure
- Learn to ignore
- Learn to manage
Learn to be Quite.
It is not important to respond every thing. Some time staying calm and quiet can be best strategy. It hits best revenge level some times when other's want to listen from you some thing but you stay quite.
Wise people always listen more then speak and whenever talk, they talk selective and to the point. It helps them to keep focus on their main stream and target. It saves the time , energy and bless humbleness.
We should practice to be quite often and talk only meaningful, truthful and accurate by words. Doing this we will have enough energies in our mind to utilize it in more productive way.
Learn to Endure.
Endure means bear the things / afflicted / behaviour with courage and braveness. Endurance made us stronger and deeper. It enlarged our gesture of acceptance and absorbance. Keeping things close to chest is very successful secret of legan.
What others said, what they comment, what they talk, what they think about you ? If you has capability to absorb bad words in you and good words to share with others , your half of problems will automatically solved because you are not part of negativity. I practiced it , definitely it is hard to absorb the harsh talking of others but when we stop responding them , they eliminate automatically.
Learn to Ignore.
This part is necessary too because everyone is not important to us. We must took things which are good and benificial and ignore useless, baseless and unoriginal. Same logic should apply on human also , we must learn that whom to ignore and whom to listen. Which words / knowledge is better to you and which you have to ignore.
Learning this skill and developing it slowly gives us right choices to adopt. Ignoring bad attitude of people also gives us calmness and peace because we didn't want to be like them at the end.
Learn to Manage.
Managing things / relationships with justice, right way , suitable to character made our life easier. Just like your mobile phone if the apps, folders, shortcuts and built-in programs shatter around on different pages and layers with uneven balance, how the interface will look. And just imagine if all these things are properly managed in different folders alphabetically how easy will be to search anything.
Exactly managing the things/ relations with good quality viewing made our life much easier. I exercise and learn how to manage my things/ time / relationships and priorities which helping me a lot.
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Cheers,
Amjad
