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Many people may feel sad after reading this article of mine, some may even get angry with me. But, this is just my personal opinion, I am not forcing it on anyone or asking anyone to believe it. It is nothing more than just an article.

what is love In general, we understand love as the relationship between the hearts of two men and women bound by the bond of love, the different expressions and behavioral characteristics of expressing this relationship. Love and love are not the same thing. There is no physical attraction in love, but there is in love. Although physical attraction is not so important in love, it is still there. It is impossible.

The main thing in love is heart or mind. Why do people fall in love? Why is crazy in love? I am not going into these matters today. My main topic of discussion today is about some misconceptions about love. So let's start our discussion today: Premer Satkahan - "Some Misconceptions"

01. There are many levels and categories of love. Most of today's love is actually just love, the amount of love in it is very small. Here the physical attraction is important, not the heart. These are the lower levels of love - "physical love". And all the love that develops and revolves around the heart is of a higher order - "psychic love".

02. Low-level physical love, where the physical relationship is more important than emotional exchange, does not last very long. After a few days, there is no more physical attraction for both of them. As a result, relationship breaks down and love breaks down. During this love, someone is fascinated by someone else's form and decides to leave the current love relationship and make love with another person. So this kind of love is born as quickly as it dies. One leaves the other, love continues. This love is actually just a game.

03. Middle level love is the kind of love where heart passion is accompanied by physical attraction. In most cases this love leads to marriage. And then slowly falling in love. A time when the physical attraction between two people becomes weak, then the love also becomes half. However, since the tension of the mind is low or high, love remains in almost all cases till death.

04. high level love This love is the love about which poems, songs, stories, novels, movies, dramas, theaters have been written over the ages. Physical attraction is very weak in this love. In this love, the mind is the key. Two hearts are truly bound in this love. This love is not bound by anything - age, religion, caste, society, family. Since physical attraction is weak in this love, one person does not fall in love by looking at another person's face, falls in love with someone's personality, someone's talent, someone's voice, someone's talent or someone's speech. However, most of the time love is not born in the hearts of two people from the passion of something. It develops completely spontaneously without being influenced by anything - the love relationship.

This bond of love is never broken. This love has no death. Immortal, this is love. Yes, its another name is platonic love. Lalon Shah's famous quote - "Man of the mind! I searched for life, but I didn't find it. What else can I get?" Really, we are looking for people of heart. But, how many people get it? What Lalon Shah could not find for a lifetime, will we find it so easily? never

A person of mind is a person who looks like his own reflection in the mirror. All things can be told to him, nothing of life is secret to him, who sleeps in dreams, happiness and sorrow are always with him, to whom the question of disbelief never arises, who is the companion of wrongdoing and good deed, who does not like for a moment Can't go - that's the mind man. Love with people of this mind is eternal love .

Here are some funny but very true sayings in the background of modern love -

01. "You are my first love" is a complete lie, he doesn't care how many people he has said this to.

02. "I love you with my life . "

03. "If I don't get you, I will end this life" - saying this, the lover/girlfriend who says this is having sex with another person with love and water, no one is dead, there is no one.

04. "The fire burns in your form" - the form of the banana, it's not good to see a dull face, and the neighborhood aunty looks great!

05. "I will love you like this even after death" - broke up the week after saying this.

06. "Ogo those two eyes of yours made me crazy" - when you say this, the eyes will still be on the girl's chest.

07. "I hold this hand of yours, I will never let go of this hand in my life" - the boy who said this will one day throw acid on the girl's face with that hand.

08. "I just love you, I don't care if you're poor or rich, I just want you" - the girl who says this is supposed to be a middle-aged techie, a rich businessman with a mustache, who is married to someone who is supposed to show the boy a glass of wine and dance dang dang. .

09. "Lakshi, I will see you once, honestly, I won't do anything else" - said the boy forcing the girl to sleep with him. After marriage, love is also a distant affair.

10. "I fell in love with you the first day I saw you" - only 99.99% of these words are false, the rest are true.

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