Atomic Habits by James Clear
hello and welcome to this book summary
where we're looking at the book atomic
habits by James Kier
now it's very easy to underestimate the
value of making small improvements on a
daily basis
too often we convince ourselves that
massive success requires massive action
why should we try and get a little
better each day well because if you can
get just 1% better each day over the
next year you will be 37 times better by
the time you're done now this applies to
all goals whether they're losing weight
winning a race or starting a business
now according to atomic habits habits
are the compound interest of
self-improvement the same way that money
multiplies to compound interest the
effect of your habits multiplies as you
repeat them they seem to make little or
even no difference on any given day but
the impact they deliver over months or
years can be enormous
now bad habits compound to putting off a
project to tomorrow seems to make no
difference but when you repeat this type
of 1% error day after day after day
these tiny errors can be compounded into
toxic results success is the product of
daily habits not once in a lifetime
transformations would be aware that your
outcomes will lag behind your habits so
for example your wealth is a lagging
measure of your savings habits and
because of this lag factor you should be
far more concerned with your current
trajectory than with your current
results now the hallmark of any compound
process is that the most powerful
outcomes are delayed so habits appear to
make no difference until we cross a
threshold and unlock a new level of
performance the plateau of latent
potential shows us why it can be hard to
build habits you make a change but fail
to see any tangible results and you
decide to give up habits need to persist
long enough to break through this
plateau and that's going to take time
goals are the results that you want to
achieve and systems are about the
processes that lead to those results now
atomic habits states that if you focus
on the system the goal will take care of
itself now why is this well firstly
because winners and losers have the same
goals so every Olympian wants to win a
gold medal every entrepreneur wants to
be successful thus it's the system of
the winners that gets them those results
and not the goals because everyone
shares the same go secondly because
achieving a goal is only a momentary
change if our goal is to tidy a room and
we Tydeus then we fit our goal but
without changing our system will soon be
looking at a messy room again also goals
restrict your happiness our implicit
assumption is once I reach my goal then
I'll be happy but that sets us up to
fail because either you achieve your
goal but you don't feel fulfilled or you
fail to achieve your goal and that makes
you feel unhappy and also because goals
are at odds with long-term progress now
many people will train hard to complete
a marathon but when the marathon is over
they completely stopped running now the
goal of running the marathon was their
motivation but now it's gone
so they stopped so if you were having
trouble changing your habits the problem
isn't you the problem is your system
focusing on the overall system rather
than a single goal is one of the core
themes of Tomic habits you do not rise
to the level of your goals instead you
fall to the level of your system so it's
all about system not goals the three
layers of behaviour change you can think
about outcomes as being about what you
get processes are about what you do and
identity is about what you believe so
when people set out to improve they just
think I want to be skinny and if I stick
to this diet then I'll be skinny so
they're thinking about the outcome and
then thinking about the process they
need to follow to achieve that
outcome what they don't realize is that
their old identity can sabotage their
plans for change so for example you
might want better health but if you
continue to prioritize comfort over
accomplishment you will be drawn to
relaxing rather than training so it's
hard to change your habits if you don't
change your underlying beliefs that led
to your previous behavior so true
behavior change is identity change you
might start a habit because of
motivation but the only reason you stick
with one is because it becomes part of
your identity now boot habits can make
sense rationally but if they conflict
with your identity you will fail to
maintain them your identity is formed
through evidence so if you run even when
it's snowing you have some evidence that
you are a runner but it doesn't just
happen with one run it's a gradual
process that might even take years now
every action you take is a vote for the
type of person you wish to become no
single instance will transform your
beliefs but as the votes build up so
does the evidence of your new identity
so here's a simple two-step process for
change one beside the type of person you
want to be and to prove it to yourself
with small wins small atomic habits
everyday and this will set up a feedback
loop your habits will shape your
identity but then eventually your
identity will start to shape your habits
habits work like this first there is the
Q the Q triggers your brain to initiate
your behavior because it predicts a
reward next you have the craving what
you crave is not the habit itself but
the change in stage it delivers the
response is the actual habit you perform
and this can be a thought or an action
and finally the response delivers a
reward now the four steps together form
a neurological feedback loop Q craving
response reward Q craving response
reward that ultimately allow you to
create automatic habits
is the habit loop so atomic habits
provides a framework we can use to
transform the four steps of the habit
loop so that we can design good habits
and eliminate bad ones so if you want to
design good habits we need to make it
obvious we need to make it attractive we
need to make it easy and we need to make
it satisfying conversely if you want to
break bad habits then you need to make
it invisible make it unattractive make
it difficult and make it on satisfying
now note that the method of breaking a
bad habit is always just the opposite of
building a good one let's examine each
law in a bit more detail and in each
section we'll look at one way to boost
your good habits along with an inversion
showing you how to break bad habits so
the first law is make it obvious and
according to atomic habits one of the
best ways to build a new habit is to
identify an existing habit and then
stack a new behavior on top of it and
this is called habit stacking so an
example might be after I shower in the
morning I will meditate or another
example would be as soon as I take off
my shoes after work I will spend 30
minutes learning French now once you
begin to master how to do this you can
create larger stacks by chaining habits
together now habits that stacking works
best when the cue is highly specific and
immediately actionable now as an
inversion we have the secret of
self-control bad habits are
autocatalytic they feed themselves they
promote the feelings they try to numb so
for example you feel bad so you eat junk
food but because you've eaten junk food
you feel bad now the idea that
self-discipline can solve our bad habits
is deeply embedded within our culture
research however shows something
different it shows that disciplined
people spend less time in tempting
situations and a practical way to remove
a bad habit therefore is to reduce
exposure to the cue that causes it
so for example if you regularly feel
like you're not enough then stop using
social media that trigger triggers your
jealousy and your envy and this practice
is an inversion of the first law of
behavior change rather than make it
obvious we want to make it invisible
self-control is short term not long term
the second law is make it attractive and
temptation bundling is a way to create a more desirable version of a habit by
connecting ish with something you
already want now temptation bundling can
be used to make most habits more
attractive than they would be otherwise
and temptation bundling basically says
that you're more likely to find find a
behavior attractive if you get to do one
of your favorite things at the same time
so for example you want to know some
celebrity gossip but you also need to
get in shape
then using temptation bundling you could
only read gossip magazines at the gym
now temptation bundling can be used in
conjunction with habit stacking to
create a set of rules to guide your
behavior now your bad habits are modern
solutions to ancient desires new
versions of old vices the underlying
motive behind the way you behave remains
the same so for example if your
underlying motive is to find love you'll
have it might be using tinder if your
underlying motive is to achieve social
acceptance your habit might be posting
on Instagram now why is this important
well it's important because there are
many different ways to address the same
underlying motive you might reduce your
stress by going for a run
or you might reduce your stress by
smoking a cigarette your current habits
are not necessarily the best way to
solve your problems they are just simply
the methods you've learned to use so
when you binge eat what you really want
isn't a potato chip what you want is to
change the way you feel the cravings you
experience and then the habits you
perform are an attempt to
address the underlying motives so when a
habit is successful in addressing a
motive you develop a craving to do it
again and again and in time you learn to
predict the checking Instagram for
example will make you feel accepted now
a simple way to make a bad habit seem
unattractive is to try and find a better
way of meeting your underlying motive so
if you eat because you want to feel
better then maybe next time you want to
feel better you could try going for a
run it's easy to get bogged down in
trying to find the optimal plan for
change often we get so focused on
figuring out the best approach we forget
to actually take action and the book has
this concept of motion versus action so
when you're in motion your planning and
your strategizing and that's very
different from actually taking action
it's only action that can directly lead
to actual results or actual outcomes but
if motion doesn't lead to results then
why do we do it well sometimes we need
to plan and learn but more often than
not motion allows us to feel as though
we're making progress without running
the risk of failure motion makes us feel
like we're getting things done but
actually you're not you're just
preparing to get something done if you
want to build a habit you need
repetition not perfection
you need action so how long does it take
to form a habit well actually that's the
wrong question the real question should
be how many reps does it take to form a
habit because habits are based on
frequency not time so your current
habits have been internalized over
hundreds or maybe even thousands of
repetitions new habits will require the
same level of frequency now atomic
habits might just take a short moment to
complete but they can continue to impact
your behavior for hours afterward and
the two-minute rule utilizes this fact
by saying when you start a new habit
it should take less than two minutes to
do so for example you want to read more
than maybe you could read a page day or
how about you want to write more than
maybe you could simply write one
sentence per day and there are two
reasons why the two minute rule works so
firstly it's a gateway habit and that
means it naturally leads you down the
road to a more productive path secondly it
reinforces the identity you want to
build if you show up at the gym seven
days a week even if it's just for five
minutes you're becoming the type of
person who doesn't miss workouts a key
point here is to simply get started you can worry about improving your atomic
habit later but you cannot improve a
habit that doesn't exist so let's look
at the inversion sometimes success is
less about making good habits easy and
more about making bad habits hard now
one way to do this is by using something
called a commitment device and this is a
choice you make in the present to
control your actions in the future now a
commitment device makes bad habits
impractical to do they increase the
friction until you don't even have the
option to act so for example the average
person spends two hours per day on
social media now would you like to have
an extra 600 hours per year then maybe
you could ask your partner to change
your social media passwords every Monday
morning and only give them back to you
on Friday evening and you'll be
surprised how much extra time you gain
during each week using this kind of
commitment device next we have strategic
one-time decisions and these are things
you only have to do once but that keep
on giving and giving so for example if
you want to improve the quality of your
sleep you could buy a blackout blind if
you wanted to improve your mental health
then maybe you could get a dog and
thirdly we have technology now this is
especially useful when habits aren't
something you do every day
for example you could use an app to
automate your savings each month or to
automate your bill paying every month
now the fourth law is make it satisfying
you're more likely to repeat a behavior
when you find the experience satisfying
as humans it can be hard to pick up new
habits and that's because the beginning
of a new habit is mostly sacrifice
without reward you go to the gym a few
times and nothing happens it takes
months to see real results and this
difficulty is compounded because the
human brain has evolved to prioritize
immediate rewards over delayed rewards
so if you want to get a habit a stick
you need to figure out a way to give
yourself an immediate reward now one
technique you can use when the reward is
long term is to set up a loyalty system
for yourself so imagine you wanted to
give up alcohol now on its own there is
no real satisfaction in simply
abstaining but what if you transferred
$25 to your holiday bank account every
week you went without alcohol
you'd be immediately rewarding yourself
for your new habit now eventually the
intrinsic reward such as better moods
and more energy kick in and you'll no
longer need the reward as it's your
identity that will be changing now while
the first three laws of behavior change
make it obvious attractive and easy
increase the odds that a behavior will
be performed the fourth law make it
satisfying increases the odds that the
behavior will be repeated to stick to
your habits the book recommends using a
habit tracker why well because they
create a visual cue that reminds you to
act they're motivating because you see
the progress you're making and don't
want the streak to stop it's satisfying
to put another X on your tracker each
day and finally they provide visual
proof that you're casting votes for the
type of person you want to become now
things inevitably go wrong from
- time and you will break your streak
and when this happens try to get a new
streak started as quickly as possible
now missing once is an accident but
missing twice is the start of a new
habit and this is the difference between
winners and losers anyone can perform
badly once but when successful people
fail they rebound quickly the inversion
of the fourth law is to make it
unsatisfying we are less likely to
repeat a bad habit if it is painful and
unsatisfying in the moment now one way
to do this is to create an immediate
consequent to you using a habit contract
now these make the cost of violating
your promises public and painful so for
example every time you eat junk food you
could post on Facebook saying that
you've been unhealthy and offer $20 via
PayPal to the first person to respond
now an accountability partner can be really helpful with this -
accountability partners work because we
care about what others think about us
and we don't want them to have a poor
opinion of us now the fact we know
someone is watching can have a huge
impact on how we behave now finally we
have an advanced topic we're going to
cover around gaining mastery it's
precisely at the moment when you begin
to feel like you've mastered a skill
that you must avoid complacently so that
you progress to the next level so what's
the solution
well the book recommends establishing a
system for reflection and review and
that's going to enable you to
objectively see what's working and what
isn't and based on this make better
plans going forward now most people use
a weekly review or a monthly review or a
six-month review it depends on what
stage you're at and what you're trying
to achieve
so in summary atomic habits are small
habits that can have a huge impact if
performed over months or even years now
the goal isn't to make a single 1%
improvement but to make thousands of
them it's lots of atomic habits stacking
up
each part of a system that eventually
creates huge impact now at the start
small improvements often seem
meaningless even if you logically know
that they're the right thing to do
gradually though as you continue to
stack as small changes on top of one
another the scales starts to tip in your
favor eventually if you stick with it
you hit a tipping point suddenly it's
easier to stick with good habits and the
overall system is working for you rather
than against you now although there's
nothing new in the book atomic habits
I found it pulled lots of different
ideas together in a really cohesive way
I also found the four laws of behavior
change simple to remember and really
easy to implement on the downside
sometimes I fell sections were written
without having any real actionable steps
at the end of them and I was left
wondering how to implement what I just
read but overall I really think it's a
great book and I give atomic habits a
really solid 9 out of 10 so that's it
really hope you enjoyed this summary and
I look forward to speaking to you again
soon