Lessons learned !
Life of human has interaction, interpersonal communication and exchanges of thoughts on daily bases which lead us to gain some lessons. These lessons we carry next in life to adopt or avoid it in repeat. Some of these becomes a symbolic stick to others as well as inlightling the path of living.
The year 2024 ending with lot of memories and incidents in my life. Here I am writing the lessons which related to my life and personal interaction.
Most unpredictable thing is our own life.
We can do prediction for certain things on base of our own knowledge and other's experiences. Mostly we say for most uncertain things that these are unpredictable like Crypto and some national teams of different games.
It was March 24 , 2024 when I got a bike accident. I was traveling to other city while lite drizzle also there. When I was in middle the destination I made a sudden brake due to a animal came on track from side fields. Road was slippery due to Rain water so my bike slipped badly. I fell down on road but my bike slipped away and hit to another bike rider. He fell down and unluckily not wearing the helmet. His head struck to metal road and within minutes passed away. He was nothing wrong with drive and even I was on speed of 40km/h only.
But a life ends with last breath in my lap which was on road due to his mother's sickness to get medication. Later the rescue teams arrived on spot and make the report that I have nothing wrong in the incident.
Second: on 2nd of December, just 4 days ago I was sitting with my uncle elder brother of my Mom. We were taking about agricultural land preparation for wheat crop and suddenly He lay down on bed and died. A unbelievable incident that without any pain , sickness, disease A life ended in my hands.
Lesson learned that our life is most unpredictable and we must be ready to accept anything, anytime.
Own identity works better.
Following other's, blindly , footsteps the instructions, try to be like them etc never works. May we got some success but can't live alive in others minds for long time if we didn't have any own identity.
It is always easy to be a follower of other and follow his footsteps in life and other things. But it is difficult to create own identity which requires high class effort and stamulation. I was a good follower of a social media user (female with User name of "Shimlygul". Which is no more in this world. May almighty God bless her soul Rest in peace). I got lot of writing tips from her because she was an excellent writer with unique style.
I started to copy her style initially with more blind attitude. Suddenly she passed away and the source of style ended. I was wondering what to do that time. Then slowly I build my own style of writing with research, compose and grip on topic . which is most successful lesson I learned in last year that our own identity matters more then earnings.
The article also published on my read.cash Wall.
Title image taken from Pixabay.
Cheers,
Amjad
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