How to Increase Intimacy in Your Relationship

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17 Oct 2022

Is your relationship not working? Are you arguing or is the fire of your love slowly extinguishing? Why is it sometimes so difficult to keep a relationship good? Easy solutions;

Try Something New

Trying something new and unexpectedly different from your normal daily routines can help reignite the spark that can keep your relationship interesting. Stepping out of your comfort zone and trying something new. It doesn’t matter what it is that you do. You can learn something together, try an activity that is new to both of you, or try something in the bedroom you haven’t tried before. When you do something new and different together the excitement generated by the experience can create stimulation and connection that can help you feel closer to each other.

Become Gist Buddies

You guys need to become gist buddies. Talk about everything, whether important, silly, or just funny. let the line of communication always stay open.
Talk about your day at work, talk about that client that is giving you a headache, and talk about every bit of detail.
Talk about your dreams and aspirations, your fears. Let them know the ones that make you sad. The past, the future. Discuss your likes and dislikes, your favorite things, your changing habits, and tastes, and your friendships, and communicate your preferences, your desires, and your love languages.
Lay everything bare strips down to your soul, and be vulnerable.

Also, discuss your finances, yes it might be difficult to learn to voice out. Let them know, you might think many of these things don't matter, but they do. As long as you guys continue to make communication seamless, it will always feel like coming home.

Communicate More

Some problems couples have is they don't like to discuss or know how to communicate. A problem shared is a problem solved, stop keeping things to yourself. Being quiet every time is just leaving so much room for misunderstanding because the silence will have to be filled. Even if it is by speculation.

When asked, what is wrong with you, avoid saying "nothing". You two will be in the house and there will be pregnant silence. Many things are going in on your mind, but no you won't share.
You don't even trust them enough to help you sort through whatever is troubling you.

Ensure you discuss everything please so that the communication line will flow seamlessly. So that when conflicts arise, they will be easier to solve. This communication can be organic or routine. For instance, you could just strike up a conversation out of the blue.