Privacy vs. Trust: The Mobile Phone Dilemma in Relationships

Some people think it's personal privacy, some people think it's better to confess, but often the two people's feelings are cracked between seeing and not seeing, confessing or not.


In fact, everyone hopes that the other person belongs to themselves completely in their feelings. Sometimes it is not the point to look at the mobile phone. The point is that the other party always avoids letting him see the other phone, which leads to psychological suspicion and suspicion. In fact, this is the desire to possess and control the mind.

Each of us knows that there is a huge crowd, and it is not easy to come together with each other, so trust is particularly important. But no matter who will always have some secrets of their own, just like a diary written as a child, parents will always think about it, and they don’t want their parents to read it. The better you hide, the more the other person wants to know that this is a person The desire to explore. But when you show it to the other party, others don’t necessarily have much interest.

So what is the purpose of looking at the mobile phone, to verify the existing facts, or to satisfy your curiosity, or to prove your position in the other party's heart. If a person believes in his heart that he is not worthy of being loved or loyal to others, then all the happiness in front of him will become a lie, and he will feel that the other person has been acting. If you are afraid of the other party's cheating, then ask yourself if you are good enough. If the answer is yes, it can only mean that the other party is not worthy of you. When you really want to look at the other party’s phone, whether to solicit the other party’s opinion is also a manifestation of trust and respect.

Giving each other a little space is also an expression of trust and respect.