Must keep these three secrets in relationship
When you're in a relationship, you should pay more attention to taking care of the other person's feelings.
No matter how much you love someone, you must keep these three secrets, which is the key to maintaining a good relationship.
Parents choice
There are some people who can't get the approval of their parents easily. For many reasons, the parents definitely want you to find a better partner.
So even in the face of many obstacles, people who love each other will still love each other, and will not be easily separated because of external voices.
It's worth noting that if your parents don't like your partner or dislike your partner for other reasons, it's best not to tell him these things. Because when he finds out that your parents don't like him, he will feel inferior, and there will be more pressure when he is with you.
Therefore, in order to improve the relationship between each other, it is important not to be easily influenced by the words of the elders, just follow their useful advice but do not accept anything that will spoil your relationship.
The person you once loved is better than the other person. If you say so, it is easy for the other person to misunderstand you and may dislike you.
The worst thing we should avoid in a relationship is comparison. When you compare the person you love with others, the implication is to make him feel that he is not as good as others in your heart.
Everyone expresses their love in different ways. Some people are generous and enthusiastic and want to give you all the good things; while some people are prejudiced and lazy, and take care of you little by little in life. Although the two love you in different ways, it cannot be denied that he does have a heart that loves you.
So, even if your former love has left a lot of good memories for you, it is better that you do not talk too much about the good of your ex in front of the present, otherwise the other party will inevitably feel sad, and he will also feel that you dislike him.
You have lied to each other
Few people can accept that they are deceived by their partner in love. This kind of feeling is like you clearly know where his bottom line is, but you have to try it.
He may not have been angry with you at first when he found out the truth, but later he may realize that you did not treat him well, the pain somewhere in his heart will suddenly burst out for a while. At that moment, he must have hated that you cheated on him.
Therefore, many women always like to use their mutual friends to test their boyfriends emotionally, men often do not like this method of women at all and they consider this act as their insult.
Deception is the most unforgivable and the most emotionally hurtful.
If you've ever lied to him, it's best to confess it now, or hide it from him for the rest of your life.
If two people want to get better and happy together, they must be inseparable from each other's mutual ideas and joint efforts.
