Fight in Love
Fights and fights happen in every relationship, but this fight should not be such that the relationship starts breaking down. To avoid this, always keep some things in mind.
When we are in a relationship, there are bound to be fights. Sometimes this quarrel reaches a very bad level. There is a chance of the relationship going bad or ending. In such a situation, it is necessary to think about what to do, so that no quarrel or fight reaches such a bad level. Some tips can help you in answering this question-
1. A break is necessary:
If at the time of any quarrel you feel that things are getting out of hand and are about to reach a very bad level, then take a break. Walk out of the room. drink water. Look elsewhere. Just keep in mind that in that hot climate, you have to press a rest button of your brain. When you start talking after pressing the rest button or taking a break, then both you and your partner have got time to look at things from a new perspective.
2. Assume Mistake:
During a fight, it should not always be what he did, it should also be what you did. After understanding and listening to both the situations, if anywhere it seems that you have made a mistake or your partner has been hurt, then apologize immediately. Such apologies often act as a beautiful ointment in the depths of relationships. After all, you love your relationship too, don't you?
3. Make sure to do the thing:
Someday you and your partner got into a fight. Neither of them is ready to understand or listen to anything. Such a situation should not last more than a few hours in a day. To sleep peacefully at night, it is necessary that you remove all the grievances between you before the night. Prolonging or making an issue of the same thing for several days can create distance in your relationship.
4. Tight Hug:
It is not necessary to bring forward your ego in every fight. Nor can every battle be won by logic. Sometimes it is about feelings and emotions. Also see what is the issue of your fight...can't this issue and resentment get away with a tight hug!! If possible, first of all do it without delay.
5. There is a way to fight:
It can't happen that a couple never fights. Even if the fight is not happening, it is still a matter of concern. But if there is a fight, then instead of dragging it unnecessarily, clear your points. What do you want to say, on what issue are you angry. Even if you have to prepare for 15-20 minutes before fighting to have your say, it will not be a bad thing. The only thing is that the fight should not drag on for long.