People Will Use You as long as You Let Them.

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10 Sept 2024
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Good Morning Bulb Family!


Greetings, everyone!

Introduction


The day you realize you're truly alone, even in a crowd, is a dark day in your life. People move around you, yet no one seems to notice, and everything feels meaningless. How do you escape when your mind is flooded with unanswered questions? Someone you once trusted has suddenly become an unsolvable mystery. You start to see that you were being used for someone else’s pleasure, someone else’s success, someone else’s rise. Life shifts in that moment when they drop you without warning, leaving you behind like you never mattered.

You feel a surge of anger, sadness, jealousy, and madness because, my friend, you were just a tool, discarded when your purpose was served. Now, no one pays attention to you anymore.

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Now, I think it's time to delve into today's topic. But before I begin, if you haven't checked out my previous articles, I encourage you to do so.

If you feel comfortable being alone, Congratulations you understood life.

Hello, family! How are you all? It’s great to be back. I hope everything is going well for you. My prayers are always with you. Right now, what’s on my mind is a mix of rage and sadness. It’s a tough feeling when you realize that people have used you as a stepping stone for their own rise. That’s exactly how I feel at the moment. There’s no reason for me to calm down, as I truly believe it’s not right. I feel I must demand an explanation. Shouldn’t I? I should ask why, right? But it’s a long story, and I won’t burden you with all the details. Sharing it might offend someone. So, I’ll just leave it at that.

People will use you for their own benefit. When they don’t know what to do, they’ll come to you for help. Your help becomes the first step in their climb. They know it, and soon enough, they begin to use you as a lift to elevate themselves. Their innocent behavior is completely fake, with no real feelings behind it. Once they reach their destination, they won’t look back at you. They’ll start to ignore you, and that’s when you realize you’ve been used.

Why People Use You?



When people decide to use you as a tool for their own promotion, your worth becomes meaningless to them. Their emotions and feelings toward you turn into a selfish act. Maybe at first, you don’t see their true intentions, but eventually, the truth comes out, and their ugly desires are revealed. You’re left in shock. You realize how easily they manipulated you, using you as bait for their success! Everything becomes crystal clear then. All the sweet words they used to impress you were just illusions, meant to make you believe they cared about you. The first instinct is to lash out or confront them, but I advise against that. Keep the anger inside. Let it burn within you, but don’t waste it on them. You might wonder why I’m saying this. Let me explain.

Let the Fire Burn


Even in the darkest times, the fire burns, and you should let it. These feelings are yours alone. Let them consume you, but not them. When you finally uncover the real reasons behind their actions, hold onto your anger. Take it as a lesson, and let this fire prevent you from falling into similar traps in the future. Human nature makes us forget easily, but this burning feeling will remind you not to trust such people again. Distance yourself from them and never allow them to use you as a stepping stone.

Maybe some of you are wondering why I’m saying all this. I personally went through this experience. Someone did the same to me. I was furious, but like I said, I held back my anger. Why should I waste my emotions on someone who doesn’t even deserve them? Thanks to Almighty, I discovered their true intentions in time. I’m fine now, but I won’t forget what happened.



Ending Thoughts


That’s all for now. I hope you understand where I’m coming from. Don’t let anyone disrespect you. People can’t use you without your permission. They don’t have that authority. So, my friend, keep your head up. Don’t let these opportunists take advantage of you anymore. Always remember: people will use you only as long as you allow them to.

Until we meet again, stay curious, stay connected, and above all, stay true to yourself.
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