There are some types of people you shouldn’t be friends with.
Living in this society, we meet all kinds of people every day, and everyone's face is strange and varied.
In our lives, you may encounter hypocritical villains, you may also meet sincere and passionate gentlemen, and you may even be attacked by "devils and monsters". As the saying goes: The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. There are always birds in the crowd. There are some black sheep, just like a forest, there will always be raptors and tigers, but all of them need to be carefully screened.
If there is anything in this world that is most difficult to deal with, it is the human heart. As we all know, today is an era of monetary interests. Whether in business or in the workplace, there is endless competition everywhere. You may be honest and humble with others, but the other party may not understand your good intentions. No. Everyone can be friends with everyone, and everyone’s social circle is different. Here are some types of people who cannot be friends!
The first type is people who take money too seriously. All they care about is the gain and loss of interests.
A person who is obsessed with power is often greedy at heart. Of course, everyone has a greedy side, but not everyone is like this. Everyone has a different attitude towards the gain and loss of interests.
Many capitalists do anything for money and only care about making a lot of money. In fact, from the highest moral point of view, this is anti-human. For example, if an entrepreneur makes things and products that are second to none, unique, and have first-class reputation and effects, but the price is high, then this is reasonable.
For a person who takes money too seriously, everything in life is disharmonious. You don’t know which aspect can ignite his fuse. The only one who will suffer in the end is yourself. It is better to have no friends than to have such friends.
The second type, people who are different from what they appear to be, always do one thing in front of others and another behind the scenes.
We usually eat and drink together, and they say that if they have any problems, they come to me. But when they really get into trouble, they are faced with all kinds of difficulties and push back and forth. In fact, the essence between people is equivalent exchange. From this point of view, this principle itself is correct, but the mistake lies in the fact that what is said in the heart and what is said in the mouth are completely different.
Don't make promises lightly if you can't do it. It's not wise to hurt someone behind their back, and it's even more unwise to expose someone face to face. It is human nature to like to listen to good things. He can talk with his mouth, please with his heart, and do things with his brain. This is a typical smart person.
The third type is borrowing money and not repaying it, always procrastinating, and disappearing when nothing happens.
I believe many people will encounter the problem of borrowing money. It's a time when everyone is in trouble, and no one has enough money. After all, a family's expenses are really high now.
When borrowing money, he is always condescending, but when repaying the money, he delays it again and again, and even loses track of it. Anyway, it is all kinds of difficulties. In fact, to put it bluntly, this kind of person is not classy, judging from his character. There is a lot missing and you cannot repay it in time. You must inform the other party. If you really can't repay everything, then pay half of it first, make up for the rest in the future, and then give a small gift. Naturally, there will be no misunderstandings, let alone Leave nothing to say.
When encountering the above-mentioned people, it is best to keep a distance and treat each other with respect as a guest. Sometimes interpersonal communication is not that complicated. It is about keeping your own bottom line. When you meet noble people and good friends, you should cherish them more. If you really can't meet them, you can only keep improving yourself!
